SOLEMN PARTNERSHIP OF CARE
Your care plan is a special partnership between you and your caregivers. When you don’t understand something, ASK. It’s the only way you can begin to get an answer. In situations where you are unclear, ask questions like: “What does that mean?”, “What are the choices?”, “What is reasonable for me to expect?”, “Is this typical or out of the ordinary?”, “Is this an emergency?”.
Trust your instincts. If something feels wrong, it just might be; in these
situations it is perfectly acceptable to voice your concern if you feel
an internal “red flag”.
It’s no secret that sometimes doctors are rushed. So that he / she will
give you their full attention - preface your conversation by telling the
doctor you need just need 2 minutes to talk - then talk from a list
you’ve made beforehand if possible.
If you are confused about the direction of your care, ask more questions
until you are satisfied. If you remain unsatisfied, tell your doctor you’d
like to pursue a 2nd opinion. If your concern has to do with care that
you’re receiving from the hospital, ask to speak to the head nurse or
the hospital’s patient representative. If you still need help, ask to speak
to an Administrator.
Overall advice: Try to stay calm; becoming upset is unproductive.
Accept the help and moral support of friends and well-wishers. Call upon
your inner spiritual strength or rely on outside resources like a minister, priest or
rabbi. Try to remain positive. Be kind. Breathe.